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Have you ever wondered where some of our wedding traditions
have originated? Well read on ... The Wedding Ring,
traditionally a plain, gold band, is the oldest surviving
symbol of marriage. The circle represents eternity and
never-ending love, while the gold represents purity of
intent. It is placed on the fourth finger of the left-hand
as it was believed that a vein called the Vena Amoris ran
straight from it to the heart.
The throwing of the Garter by the groom to
unmarried men and the Bouquet by the bride to unmarried
girls is believed to bring good luck and marriage to
whomever they are caught by.
The conventional white Dress is said to be a sign
of purity and high virtues. Green signifies youth, hope and
happiness. Red denotes vigour, courage and passion, while
violet symbolises dignity, pride and high ideals.
Something old, something new, something borrowed,
something blue Something Old could be a piece of
jewellery or something from a happily married woman as a
blessing of matrimonial bliss. This represents the married
woman’s links with her family and her past.
Something New depicts the new life that the bride is
starting – usually this is her dress or shoes.
Something Borrowed is to remind the bride of the need to
rely on others for help. This is normally gold, representing
the sun, the source of life.
Something Blue, usually the garter, denotes faithfulness
and is a compliment to the moon, protector of women.
Honeymoon – about 4000 years ago in Babylon it was
the accepted practise that after a wedding the bride’s
father would supply his new son-in-law with all the beer he
could drink for a month. The beer, called mead, was a
honey-based beer, and because the Babylonian calendar was
lunar-based the period became known as the honey month, or
as we know it today, the honeymoon.
Ringing of the wedding bells after the ceremony.
This was meant to scare away the evil spirits that could
destroy the couple's happiness.
The Bridal Bouquets. In ancient times, the first
bridal bouquets were made of not only flowers but special
herbs and spices. This was done to ward off the evil
spirits. They also used particular herbs that symbolized
fertility.
Throwing rice (or birdseed) as the couple departs.
The birdseed was thrown to promote fertility.
The Receiving Line - In ancient times, it was
believed that the bride and groom were blessed. Those who
touched them would have good luck.
Bride and groom cut the cake and then feed each
other. Feeding each other the cake symbolizes how the couple
will "feed" and nourish the relationship for the rest of
their lives. Now, this was meant as loving and caring symbol
for each other. As for the "smearing" and pushing cake into
each other's faces? No one knows how that started...
Hopefully, that's a "tradition" that will die out!
Giving almonds at a wedding symbolises the bitter
and sweet aspect of married life. The five almonds represent
Love, Happiness, Loyalty, Prosperity and Virility.
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