If you think all that's required of you is to turn up on the day and be told where to stand and when to say "I do".... please think again.  

• Decide on your wedding budget with your fiancée.
   

• Choose your best man, groomsmen and ushers.
   

• Make an appointment with your celebrant and attend to all legal requirements.
   

• Make appointments to visit formal wear stores with your fiancée to decide on styles.
   

• Decide on the style of buttonholes for you and your party.
   

• Organise to have your wedding bands engraved.
   

• Discuss honeymoon plans with your fiancée and set a budget.
   

• Discuss with your fiancée whether you would like to use a bridal registry service and go with her to choose the gifts.
   

• Make all honeymoon arrangements.
   

• Enroll yourself and your fiancée in dancing lessons for that all-important first dance.
   

• Book accommodation for your wedding night.
   

• Make sure your home is stocked with essentials for when you return from your honeymoon.
   

• Gather maps, brochures and travel schedules for your out of town guests.
   

• Make transport arrangements for you, the wedding party, and both sets of parents, including transport from the reception to where you will be spending your wedding night.
   

• Organise purchase of liquor, wines and champagne for the reception (if not provided by your venue)
   

• Delegate someone responsible to collect gifts from the reception and look after them for you.
   

• Review all contracts with providers of wedding services and offer to confirm all arrangements for your fiancée
   

• Choose a special toast to your bride
   

• Prepare (and practise) your speech.
   

• Make a list of favourite songs to discuss with your fiancée and choose one for the bridal dance.
   

• Organise appointments for formal wear fittings for all the men in your party.
   

• In the stressful months leading up to the day, surprise your fiancee with romantic dinners, with the stipulation that you both cannot mention the wedding during the entire evening.
   

• Attend to all fees for the Celebrant, the musicians, the photographers, etc.
   

• Surprise your fiancée by arranging for flowers, champagne and chocolates to be delivered to your hotel room on your wedding night.
   

• When you collect your wedding rings from the jeweller, take your fiancée's engagement ring along and have it professionally cleaned.
   

• Review all insurance policies (home, car, life, medical etc) and make any adjustments necessary.
   

• Delegate someone responsible to look after your wedding certificate once it has been signed and presented to you.
   

• Buy gifts for the men in your bridal party and last, but by no means least, buy a very special gift for your bride

And Don't Forget

• The buttonhole flowers are worn on the left lapel --- flower up
   

• With single breasted suits, do up the top button only when there are two buttons on the suit, and do up the middle button only when there are three buttons.
   

• The pleats on the cummerbunds are worn facing up.
   

• The groomsmen should all be wearing matching shoes. Most formal wear stores have a hire range of black lace-up and slip-on shoes.
   

• Why should girls have all the fun? When you book in for a final suit fitting, why not take all of your groomsmen to the hairdressers for a style cut, and then buy them lunch to thank them for their support and friendship.
   

• Wear a subtle aftershave or fragrance so as not to overpower your bride's perfume and the subtle fragrance of her bouquet.
   

• Have your hair trimmed approximately one to two weeks before the wedding so that it doesn't have that "just cut" look.
   

• Have a facial a few days before the wedding, after all you will not have the luxury of layers of makeup to give you a perfect complexion.
   

• Take a stick of cover-up foundation with you on the day for you and your groomsmen to use to hide any blemishes or shaving rashes.
   

• For best photographic results, shave 2-3 days before the wedding and then wait until the morning of the wedding to have your last shave as a single man.
   

• Have a manicure two days before the wedding. On the wedding day use a nail brush to clean your hands and nails. Do not apply hand lotion you will be shaking hands with a lot of people and there is nothing like a wet, oily handshake.